When you signed up for a hosting package, it includes an email server to take care of your website email tasks. If your hosting package is a shared server, it could be your email problems are related to someone who resides on your shared host IP address that you inherited at no fault of your own. Also, hosts don't always provide the best spam filters for your inbox.
If you think you are having email problems with your host, one option to consider is to change your email server to google servers. You get fast email service and a great spam filter for FREE.
The following video shows you how to sign up and change your MX records on your server for google. In this case, my host is hostmonster. Instructions for your host may be slightly different but the following is a good guide since most hosts follow very similar instructions. While watching the video, recommend pausing the video to read the instructions if they pass by too quickly.

If you need to sign up for google apps click this link:
New Sign Up for Google Apps
Once you have you changed your MX records to google apps, don't forget the following:
1. Update your vldPersonal script to reflect the new email address (it will be a gmail address created by google apps).
2. If you have more than one domain, you do NOT have to create a new google app account for each domain. You can add a new domain to your primary google apps account as an alias.
3. Firefox has a great add on you can use for checking your email in google apps
4. If you have outlook express you can also configure it to use google apps.
Note the above 4 points are not that difficult. If you need help or instructions let me know and I will help after you have updated your mx records to google apps.
Now that google apps is setup as my email server, I will show you how I use with vldPersonals in screen shots below.
To log in to google apps use the following URL:
https://www.google.com/a/filipina-lady.net/ (replace filipina-lady.net in the above URL with your URL)
Note: if you watched the above video, when you signed up for google apps, it asked you what domain you wanted to use. Hence, you will now use that domain when you login to your google apps (note: there is a firefox addon that makes logging in faster - I will show you in screen shot).
I should of explained better in the image below why you would want to use an alias. If you have more than one domain, you do NOT have to create an account for each domain. Instead you can add an alias domain to your primary account so all your domains use one account as their email server. There is nothing stopping your from creating a new google apps account for each domain, but the less accounts I have to remember the better.
You can also setup your outlook express to use google apps. I did not cover at this time. If you use firefox and add the add on for managing google apps, you may never need to use outlook express again. However, if someone really wants to use outlook express, let me know and I will explain the settings when time permits. View Comments & Reply...
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I`m looking to purchase unlimited commercial licence. Please post your price, i can pay via Paypal only.
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Just to let you know that new template is available at LuvPoint.com
It's a new generation of templates. Now you can configure your theme easy.
No need to install mods or make any changes to vldPersonals files. Just copy and activate. Follow simple instructions to make your site look like you want it to.
Options available in this NightLuv release:
- Enable-disable main menu on the homepage for guests.
- Enable-disable slideshow on the homepage for guests.
- Enable-disable members carousel right after slideshow. Choose sorting method for this jcarousel.
- Choose layout style. Options: classic, content, forms.
Classic - original vldPersonals homepage.
Content - three columns: welcome text, latest blogs, latest news.
Forms - three columns: welcome text, sign up form, quick search form.
- Enable-disable alternative footer.
- Enable-disable members carousel right above the footer. Sorting method for this jcarousel.
- Enable-disable top ads on all pages.
- Enable-disable footer ads on all pages.
Click here for demo of the classic look.
Click here for demo of the 3column look.
Thank you
Best wishes View Comments & Reply...
Just to let you know that new template "BlackDates" is available @ LuvPoint.com
- Settings Page
- Soft and elegant design
- Some nice features implemented
- Firefox, Chrome, Safari, IE6+ compatible
More information
Live Demo
Best wishes and have a great dating business View Comments & Reply...
i can do it for you
i use it to translate private messages into nay language
its not as a "mod" but as raw php changes in the files and on the template page but it works great until i can make it into a mod
price for it is 45$
check the photo to see how it looks
thats the inbox page, ofc it will show message and under it translation on viewing the message
P.S: it works with google translator so the translation might not be 100% accurate all the time, but if the sender writes the message with good typing then the translation is accurate View Comments & Reply...
The problem i have is that, the template tag for checking logged in member is not working. What could be wrong?
I mean this is not working "<!-- IF loggedin == "0" -->"
It ignores the tag and displayed the code within it - whether the user is logged or not. Strange enough the same code works fine on my current shared host. View Comments & Reply...
Any suggestion, what to take or not to take?
How hard is to integrate it to vldpersonal?
Can it be made that only people on friendlist can use 1on1 chat?
Thanks View Comments & Reply...
Is anyone using cloudflare.com or maxcdn.com?
Any positive/negative feedback? vldPersonals runs faster?
Thinking about cloudflare as it's easier to start with... View Comments & Reply...
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The private message email notification will be 1 link and when clicked on the user who received the message will be logged in automatically on the website and directed to the privat message.
This is an example on how the link looks like in the email (Pretty ugly i know)
Hello testmihai,
root has just sent you a private message.
Follow the link below to read it:
http://www.website.com/index.php?m=quicklogin&id=11705&hash=feea0015058a61cf7ef054a84453acd2&refurl=aHR0cDovL3d3dy55b3VybG92ZWNoYXQub3JnL2luZGV4LnBocD9tPWFjY291bnRfbWVzc2FnZXMmcD1pdmlldyZpZD0yMzI=
Selling this modification for 50$ for who wants it.
Cheers View Comments & Reply...
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I love vldpersonals, but I need a forum into my dating site and I don't like that the vldp module that implements phpbb3 doesn't keep the members messages into the forum when members unsubscribe the site.
So I decided to move to another script and I am evaluating to migrate to JomSocial.
I wonder if someone already did it and can suggest me a good coder for data migration.
My site has 20.000 members and I want to migrate just some profile data, private messages, and pictures.
Moreover I would like to know how I can sell my vldpersonals license after migration. I don't have any idea on how to do this. (2.7 expiring 29 april 2012).
This site needs a forum too. View Comments & Reply...










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